Parents' Visit 2014

From September 17 to 24, 2014, my parents visited Norma and me. In many ways, this was a relaxed visit...at least for me, since I really didn't plan much. Norma did a bulk of the work, planning for our trip to Chincoteague, Virginia where we met her family.

For me, the highlight would be showing them our chickens and the work I did to build the coop and run.

Above are some of the wild ponies we saw at Chincoteague.




 Wednesday, September 17, 2014

ArrivalOpen accordion icon
I put in a full day at work and then picked up my folks at Baltimore Washington International (BWI) Airport. We spent much of the evening just talking and getting caught up on stuff.



 Thursday, September 18, 2014

ChickensOpen accordion icon
I introduced my parents to our chickens and showed them the coop.
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Me holding panel wall of coop
Me at coop.
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Chicken run, coop, and electric wire running to coop
Chicken run.

The hens enjoyed pecking at Mom's shoes. I collected three eggs that morning.
Me holding three eggs

I then refilled their feeder and their fount.
Me carrying full feeder with chickens following me

I also fed them some mash (fermented feed). This grows some pro-biotics that are good for their digestion.
Me holding bowl of fermented feed with eight chickens around it

Our chicken-sitter, Erin, would take care of the girls while we were away.

Norma showed off her garden.
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Green tomatoes growing up trellis
Tomatoes.
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Two sweet potato flowers
Sweet potato flowers.

Sometime around midday, we headed out for Chincoteague. It was a long drive but fortunately, traffic wasn't too bad.
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Vacation houseOpen accordion icon
We stayed at a house that Joyce (Norma's sister) rented.
Vacation house with me at the door and Dad at the gate

In addition to Joyce and her husband Jimmy, we met Hazel (Norma's mother), Jim and Lori (Jimmy's parents), Joyce and Jimmy's daughter, and Joyce and Jimmy's foster child.

My folks, Norma, and I all slept in the same spacious room upstairs.
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 Friday, September 19, 2014

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Jimmy and I were up early. We drove to Veterans Memorial Park which was an easy walk from the house but a long way to carry the boats. We then launched at the ramp.
Boat ramp

The two of us rode the outgoing tide into the Chincoteague Inlet. We eventually landed on the southwest side of Toms Cove Hook, just south of Fishing Point on Assateague Island.
Two kayaks on beach at Toms Cove Hook

Normally, one cannot land there between March 15 and August 31 because it is a nesting area for birds. But now that it was September, we were free to go ashore so that is what we did. In the past, I've found several large shells there. I was hoping to do the same today. We found a few pretty quickly but it didn't take long to realize that most of the beach was bare. I figured it was near low tide so maybe we could look just below the waterline and find things that other shell hunters might have missed when the water was higher. But even below the low water mark, there wasn't much to be seen.

I noticed that there were spots here and there under water where algae was growing out of the sand. I wondered why it was growing just in these (apparently random) places. So I stuck my hand in the sand and dug down. It didn't take long before I pulled up a big shell. I tried it again and found another big shell. I told Jimmy about this and he also started digging. We did this for about 45 minutes, gathering dozens of large shells. Jimmy and I had so many that we could be picky so we took only the best.

I decided that the smart thing was to load them in my Prijon Catalina, which I was paddling. The reason for this is that unlike the Cobra Expedition, which he paddled, I carry the Prijon upright on my car. This means we could use the Prijon to get the shells back to the car and not have to flip it over and possibly damage the shells. I certainly didn't mind carrying the extra weight.

I loaded my shells in the rear compartment while Jimmy put his in the front. My boat was packed to the gills.

Back in the water, we started heading back. Here's Jimmy.
Jimmy on the Cobra Expedition

Shortly after rounding Fishing Point, we saw a couple of dolphin in the distance. We paddled towards them. Unfortunately, they were not in big schools like when Norma, Carmen, and I saw them on July 17, 2011. We tried to take photos and videos of the dolphin but they were too elusive and they seemed to be able to hold their breath forever. Over the next hour, we saw about ten. Not a lot, but certainly enough to quench my craving for seeing some marine mammals. Things were quiet enough so that if they weren't too far away, we could hear them expel air as they broke the surface. Click the below image to start a video.
Dolphins breaching

The return trip took much longer since the tide was not as cooperative. But at least boat traffic wasn't bad and the water conditions were fairly calm.

We made it back a little after noon, having paddled about 9.5 miles.

Back at the house, we unpacked our shells. You can see Jimmy's shells in the below picture. The one in the top right position is a lightning whelk. The one in the second row, and third from the left is a channeled whelk. All the others are knobbed whelk.
All the shells that Jimmy found

Our count of big shells is as follows:
  • Knobbed whelk: 60 total: 28 for Jimmy and 32 for me. This is the New Jersey and Georgia state shell.
  • Lightning whelk: Seven total; one for Jimmy and six for me. This is the Texas state shell. It was unusual finding these because normally, they are not found north of North Carolina.
  • Channeled whelk: Two total; one for Jimmy and one for me.

  • You can identify the channeled whelk by their smooth spire.
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    Channeled whelk with quarter
    Opening facing away.
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    Channeled whelk with quarter
    Opening facing.

    It took me awhile to be able to distinguish the knobbed from the lightning whelk. Dr. Paul F. of the Smithsonian Environmental Research Center (SERC) helped me with that. The knobbed whelk are almost always right handed which means if the spiral is faced upward, it fits in your right hand. In contrast the lightning whelk are almost always left handed. How do you distinguish the rare exceptions of a left handed knobbed whelk or a right handed lightning whelk? Just look at the spire. The lightning whelk has a much lower spire. I checked and that was certainly the case for all mine. Thanks Dr. Paul!

    In the below pics, the lightning whelk is on the left while the knobbed whelk is on the right.
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    Two shells with opening facing
    Lightning whelks tended to be bigger.
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    Two shells with opening facing away
    Another view.
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    Top view.  When viewed from this angle, the spires look amazingly similar.
    Top view.

    Both the Knobbed Whelk and Lightning Whelk are extremely variable species. The shells of each individual species differ considerably in shape, spire height, siphonal canal length, coloration, weight, size and number of knobs/spines, etc. Fortunately, species identification 99.9% of the time is assured owing to the fact that the Knobbed Whelk is dextral (right handed - opening to the right when held with the spire up) while the Lightning Whelk is sinistral (left handed - opening to the left when held with the spire up). However, both species on rare occasions are known to produce reverse coiled specimens (a shell eagerly sought by collectors and both known from northeast Florida) which can complicate easy identification in some instances.
    - from Jacksonville Shell Club - Guide to Northeast Florida Whelks

    This species [the lightning whelk] shares many characteristics with another species, the knobbed whelk (Busycon carica), but there are some important differences:
  • Lightning whelks are sinistral in coiling, whereas knobbed whelks are dextral.
  • Lightning whelks have a lower spire than the knobbed whelk.
  • The knobs of the lightning whelk are usually less well-developed than those of the knobbed whelk.
  • Lightning whelks prefer to stay in deeper waters than the knobbed whelks when feeding on mud flats [so they would be harder to find for the recreational shell hunter].
  • - from Wikipedia - Lightning Whelk

    Based on the above, a right handed knobbed whelk occurs with probability 0.999 while a left handed one has a probability of 0.001. So what is the probability of finding seven more left handed knobbed whelk out of a random sample of 67? According to my calculation, the answer is 8.198 * 10^-13. This is an incredibly small number. How small? The chance of winning the jackpot in the Mega Millions multi-state lottery is 4,712 times as great. So it is pretty safe to say that the southpaw whelk that I found were lightning whelk and not knobbed whelk.

    I have since given many of these shells to friends and donated the best ones to the Robinson Nature Center. I've acquired a few too many things of the natural world from all my kayaking and paddleboarding. It is getting hard to keep track of them all and I figured others can make better use of them than me.
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    While Jimmy and I were out on the water, my parents, Hazel, and Norma took the girls to the same park where we launched.
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    Playing at the playground
    Making friends.
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    Mom, two kids, and another adult walking, all holding hands
    Out for a walk.
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    Kids in a red tube
    Tubular.
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    We took it easy for the rest of the day. I took a nap.
    Me sleeping on floor

    Jimmy's dad rented an electric Hummer as a birthday present for himself.
    Red, mini, electric Humvee

    Norma played games with my niece.

    We all enjoyed a nice home-cooked meal together.
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     Saturday, September 20, 2014

    Chincoteague National Wildlife RefugeOpen accordion icon
    Our little vacation house was pretty nice. It had a pool which we never used. I heard the water was too cold. The outside was decorated with shells like the ones Jimmy and I found. There were also various flowers such as hibiscus which decorated the area.
    Red hibiscus flower

    The mosquitoes were terrible, especially in the parking area behind the house. But that's just how Chincoteague tends to be. I think staying sometime after Columbus Day would have meant far fewer mosquitoes. I know that even on Columbus Day weekend on October 9-11, 2010, there were quite a few.

    Norma, Hazel, Mom, Dad, and I drove a short distance to the Chincoteague National Wildlife Refuge. Our first stop was the Herbert H. Bateman Educational and Administrative Center. Outside the building, we saw a lot of damage to a tree done by tent caterpillars.
    Tree devastated by tent caterpillars

    Inside, the various environmental and nature displays were very interesting.

    We walked on the Lighthouse Trail to the Assateague Lighthouse. Mom and I climbed to the top where we had a spectacular view of the surrounding area.
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    Hazel, Norma, and my parents on the Lighthouse Trail
    Lighthouse Trail.
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    Assateague Lighthouse
    Assateague Lighthouse.
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    Mom and I near the top of the lighthouse looking down
    Near the top.
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    View of the Maddox Boulevard bridge we drove in on
    Maddox Boulevard bridge afar.
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    View from lighthouse looking south.  If you could zoom in, you'd see Memorial Park
    South view.
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    Next, the five of us drove out to take a boat tour with Daisey's Island Cruises. We met Joyce, Jimmy, Jim, Lori, and the kids there. We all went on a cruise from Curtis Merritt Harbor heading east and counterclockwise around about half the length of Chincoteague through Assateague Channel and back. Along the way, we saw a lot of things.

    We saw about six dolphin. None were willing to pose for a photograph so I have no proof but believe you me they were there.

    There were about three bald eagles that were pretty far away. Fortunately, the staff let us use binoculars to get a closer look.
    Bald eagle in tree

    I spotted some American oystercatchers. Until now, I had no idea they could be found on the east coast.
    American oystercatcher bird

    We passed an area with farm-raised clams.
    Clams in containers by a pier

    Off in the distance, we could see the lighthouse that Mom and I climbed just a couple hours ago.
    Red and white Assateague Lighthouse

    Jimmy was looking for wildlife while his daughter was wondering why her father's beard was turning gray.
    Jimmy in boat with his daughter watching him

    Later, the foster daughter became the center of attention.
    Hazel watching foster daughter in Joyce's arms

    The big thing we saw on the boat tour were the wild ponies. Who could leave Chincoteague without seeing them? They were in the area on Assateague known as Horse Marsh...appropriately named.
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    Solitary reddish-brown pony eating grass
    Solitary reddish-brown pony.
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    Two ponies
    Two ponies.

    These ponies often don't get to be horse-size because the salt water vegetation doesn't provide as much nourishment as what most domestic horses receive.

    I was hoping to see pelicans but I saw none. But seeing the oystercatcher made up for this.
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    We went back to the house for lunch and a rest. I saw an American Toad.
    American toad

    Next, Norma, my folks, and I headed back to the refuge and walked on the Woodland Trail. Along the way, we saw Indian Pipe, a plant that I originally thought was a fungus but is actually just a plant that does not produce chlorophyll. Very strange.
    Indian pipe, a white plant

    Norma and I walked the Bivalve Trail while my parents finished off the Woodland Trail loop. This took us to the northern part of Toms Cove. We caught up with them at the end.
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    Building built on pier with big bird nest atop
    Raised building and nest.
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    Marshy beach
    Beach.

    After our little hike, we drove on the Wildlife Loop around Snow Goose Pool. In the past, I've seen hundreds of egret but today not so many. But we did see a few glossy ibis.
    Black ibis bird

    Having worked up a bit of an appetite, we tried to meet Joyce, Jimmy, and Hazel for dinner. This was not as easy as it sounds. Saturday night in Chincoteague is pretty busy. It seems a lot of people head out there to dine. So we had a hard time finding a place. There was a good bit of traffic for this small, island town that night. A mass of ducks crossing the road slowed things down further.
    Cars waiting while ducks cross the road

    In the end, we ended up eating at Wave House Grill.
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    Our final event for the evening was a pony show at the Chincoteague Pony Centre. It was only ten dollars per person but well worth every penny and more. Some girls demonstrated their riding skills (I never see boy riders) while a speaker told us everything we wanted to know about these beautiful ponies.
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    Two ponies with front feet on platform
    Ponies on display.
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    Pony and rider jumping an obstacle
    Jumping an obstacle.

    Afterward, the girls let people come up to the ponies and pet them (the ponies, not the girls). They also answered questions (the girls, not the ponies).
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     Sunday, September 21, 2014

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    After a good night sleep, we spent a little time with family, packed up, said our farewells, and headed out.
    Dad with foster girl

    I was hoping to stop at the NASA Wallops Visitor Center but it was closed. I've been to Chincoteague quite a few times now and every time I've wanted to go to that visitor center, it has been closed. I guess I just need to plan my activities around it rather than hope it is open when I'm free. There was actually supposed to have been a rocket launch during our visit but it got canceled. What a sight that would have been!

    We stopped at a roadside fruit stand on the drive home. I considered buying a giant pumpkin but it would not have fit in my car.
    Pumpkins at fruit stand with me behind

    Traffic was slow as we got close to the Bay Bridge. Not surprising since it was Sunday.
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    ChestertownOpen accordion icon
    With the help of my GPS, I took some back roads and headed to Chestertown in Kent County, Maryland. This is a town I have been to several times. Norma and I spent a weekend there on March 15-16, 2008. If I had to choose right now where I wanted to retire, I would pick Chestertown.
  • It is the home of Washington College, a liberal arts college which is also is the tenth oldest college in the country.
  • The National Trust for Historic Preservation named Chestertown, Maryland to its 2007 list of America's Dozen Distinctive Destinations, an annual list of unique and lovingly preserved communities in the United States.
    "Chestertown is a treasure hidden in plain sight," said Richard Moe, president of the National Trust for Historic Preservation. "A small, historic and relatively unspoiled Eastern Shore town, Chestertown had the good sense to hang on to what makes it so special. The result is a vibrant community that offers travelers an ideal retreat."
    - from Chestertown, Maryland - historic colonial town on the Chester River
  • Progressive Farmer magazine honors Kent County and Chestertown by naming it #1 in Best Rural Places to Live in America for 2008. "For a county to be in Progressive Farmer's Best Places list, they hold them to the usual standards - good schools, health care, safety and other desirable qualities. But what makes Kent stand out is its residents' resolve to maintain a solid rural heritage."
    - from Wikipedia - Chestertown, Maryland
  • Its average temperatures make it a little cooler than Columbia, Maryland.
  • The overall cost of living is 10.8% less than Savage, Maryland and only 2.7% more than Deer Park, Maryland, according to Areavibes - cost of living calculator.
  • Chestertown is full of history.
    In the mid-eighteenth century, Chestertown was considered Maryland's second leading port after Annapolis.
    - from Top Retirements

  • In Chestertown, we stopped for a late lunch at Lemon Leaf Cafe.

    We walked around the historic area after picking up some walking tour information at the visitor center. Along the way, we saw a plant with some very bright lavender colored fruit. It turns out it is called beautyberry.
    My parents, Norma, and beautyberry

    Walking along the waterfront, we saw the Sultana, a replica of a 1768 schooner ship.
    Sultana ship
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    Mom, Dad, Norma, and I eventually made it home after a long day of driving. Not surprisingly, we all wanted to see the chickens. Dad grew up with a few hundred chickens and a few turkeys but he said he had never seen any as tame as mine.

    This is Mom taking a photo of Dad feeding corn to Osprey, Rosemary, Beatrice, and Dorothy.
    Mom taking picture of Dad and chickens

    Here's Mom feeding corn to Beatrice, Dorothy, and Osprey with me feeding corn to Gwendolyn, Edith, and Rosemary.
    Mom and I feeding chickens

    Dad helped me unload the boats, wash the kayaking gear, and clean off the shells I found. I soaked the shells in a diluted bleach solution overnight.

    Norma and I showed some of the photos from our recent Norway trip before heading to bed.
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     Monday, September 22, 2014

    Bollman Truss BridgeOpen accordion icon
    I checked up on my shells. They were looking real clean.
    The shells I found at Chincoteague

    Norma and I took my folks out to the Savage Mill Trail for a little walk. The last time they were there was for our wedding almost two years ago on October 8, 2012. Looking down from the trail, it looked like some large (12-16 feet long) debris got caught in the Little Patuxent River after a storm.
    Wooden structure caught in rocks in river

    We stopped at the Bollman Truss Bridge.
    The design of the Bollman Truss Bridge - patented in 1852 and one of the first to use iron exclusively in all essential structural elements - was critical in the rapid expansion of American railroads in the 19th century. Replacing wooden bridges, which were cumbersome to build and vulnerable to decay, the Bollman Truss Bridge could be built relatively quickly and inexpensively, while providing the long-lasting qualities associated with metal. This allowed new rail lines to be built over long distances in a short period of time.
    - from American Society of Civil Engineers - Bollman Truss Bridge

    Wendel Bollman's design was pretty significant when you think of it. Railroads were the thing that connected the country and helped westward expansion. Without a strong, durable, lasting bridge, the railroad companies would have faced much greater challenges.

    Savage is home to the last surviving Bollman Truss Bridge.
    The four of us on the bridge

    This bridge was listed on the National Register of Historic Places on December 18, 1972, and was designated a National Historic Landmark on February 16, 2000. Notice how proud we look to set foot on it.
    A zoomed in view of the four of us on the bridge

    Next, we ate an early lunch at Ma's Kettle, our hometown restaurant. They don't have very good hours so if we're free midday during the week, we try to make time to go there. The place has a real small town homey feel that Norma and I love.

    We headed home to rest up and digest.
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    Irvine Nature CenterOpen accordion icon
    Mom, Dad, Norma, and I drove out to Baltimore County to visit the Irvine Nature Center. This is a place that Norma and I had never seen. We first stopped at the visitor center. Then we walked on the Vista Loop Trail. Along the way, we stopped at an aviary where we saw several raptors. Then we explored a little fenced-in area called the Woodland Garden.

    In the below snapshot, Mom and Dad venture through the outdoor classroom.
    Mom and dad outside on a dirt path

    Continuing on, we walked to the gazebo and the Meadow Overlook before turning around at the bee apiary.
    Bee hive boxes

    I had Dad try out my REI carbon fiber hiking poles.
    My folks and I with Dad holding hiking poles

    I think it is a great tool to help elderly people walk with good balance and posture. Just make sure to get the rubber end caps if you'll be walking on a more finished surface (e.g. paved road, sidewalk, etc.).

    Norma and I will definitely have to return here, maybe in the winter. They have more than five miles of hiking trails that are just begging to be explored.

    We went home and enjoyed some fine cuisine which Norma prepared.

    I set my shells out to dry.

    The four of us watched a Dailyshow interview with George Takei before calling it a night.
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     Tuesday, September 23, 2014, Fall Equinox

    Historic SavageOpen accordion icon
    In the morning, a datura flower was blooming in the front yard. How it got there we don't know. It just showed up and took root.
    White datura flower blooming

    Norma had to go to work so I entertained my parents solo.

    My shells were looking pretty nice.
    Shells drying in front of garage

    In preparation for our October 5, 2014 Savage 7k run and one mile historic walk, I took my parents on a tour of the oldest section of town. I am the guide for the historic walk so I took advantage of the moment to get in some practice before the main event. See them below in front of the Methodist Church next to some celosia (aka cockscomb) flowers.
    Mom and Dad in front of Methodist Church and celosia flowers

    The new pastor of the Methodist Church came by to say hello. He is a friendly fellow by the name of Dae-wah who was pleased to know that Dad had served in the Korean War.
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    I drove my folks to the Montpelier Mansion. Norma had been here before but I had not. We started by walking through the garden.
    Mom and Dad in the garden at Montpelier Mansion

    Inside the mansion, we got a really great guided tour from a guide by the name of Mark. I thought his tour was far better than my Savage historic walking tour but I later learned that he is also a docent at the National Library of Congress. So he is big league.

    I learned a lot on the tour. Some stuff I was able to take away and possibly include for my Savage tour. If nothing else, I could at least store it in the back of my head in case folks have questions about the surrounding area.
  • The Snowden family owned 9,000 acres in the late 18th century. If this didn't include some of Savage, it certainly included land very near it.
  • In my Savage tour, I mention that Henry Ridgely surveyed some of the land that now includes Savage. He married Elizabeth Warfield. Her father patented for her the land that contains the Wincopin Trails. In the Snowden family tree, both Warfields and Ridgelys are mentioned though I can't quite match any up with the Henry or Elizabeth associated with Savage.
  • By far the most valuable thing in the South were the slaves. Their worth (assuming you can put a price on a person) far exceeded that of tobacco or cotton.
  • Major Thomas Snowden was part owner in the family ironworks located along the Patuxent River. He also owned a tobacco plantation.

  • After touring the mansion, we walked through the Montpelier Cultural Arts Center.
    Montpelier Cultural Arts Center building

    Various artists displayed their works, including some watercolor paintings of chickens.
    Painting of chickens
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    JennOpen accordion icon
    My good friend, Jenn, came over that evening. I introduced her to my chickens. They really liked her, especially Beatrice who flew up on Jenn three times! Beatrice is friendly though I've never seen her take to anyone so quickly.
    Beatric on Jenn's arm

    Below, Beatrice is playing friendly with me.
    Me holding a bowl with Beatrice perched on the rim.  Other chickens look on from the ground

    Mom, Dad, Jenn, and I drove out to Pisco for some Peruvian cuisine. This is a new restaurant and a new dining experience for us all. The food was unique. Jenn really liked her dish and Dad not so much. I was just impressed at how different everything tasted compared to food I have eaten before.
    Jenn with my parents

    Back at the house, I showed Jenn some of the fossils I've found while paddleboarding this year. Norma got home just in time to join in on the socializing. I gave Jenn a knobbed whelk to take home.
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     Wednesday, September 24, 2014

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    Norma and I took my parents to the Robinson Nature Center.
    My parents and Norma in front of the Robinson Nature Center building

    I was clearly getting ready for my walking tour. Even at the nature center, I was gathering info I could use.
  • The seal of Howard County displays the county's sources of its early prosperity: wheat farms and tobacco fields.
  • The rolling hills of Maryland's piedmont had soil conditions that were perfectly suited to wheat. By 1790, wheat was America's top crop, and Maryland led the nation in milling technology and output.
  • The Mill Act of 1669 encouraged the building of mills along rivers.
  • A millrace diverts water from a river to power a mill's waterwheel. It keeps the water nearly level (while the rest of the river flows downhill), so that the full weight of the water could "fall" vertically onto the waterwheel's paddles or fill its buckets, generating enough gravitational force to set the wheel in motion.
  • Relations with Britain failed to improve after the American Revolution, and in 1807, the British openly attacked the USS Chesapeake. Attempting to deliver a retaliatory blow to the British economy, President Thomas Jefferson banned American ships from landing in foreign ports, essentially cutting off trade.

  • We checked out the numerous displays and walked outside for a bit. A great big praying mantis suspended itself from an overhang.
    Praying mantis
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    FarewellOpen accordion icon
    Back at the house, we spent a little time with the chickens. In the pic below, see Beatrice beside me on the chair with Gwendolyn behind, Gertrude on the ground in front, and Edith to the left.
    Me in chair with Beatrice

    I drove my folks to the airport and we said our good-byes. I sent them home with two large shells: a right handed knobbed whelk and a left handed lightning whelk.
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    ConclusionOpen accordion icon
    After my parents left, I gave a lot of thought to fitness and how an exercise program should change as we age. I was inspired to write elder training.

    I am truly fortunate for the time I got to spend with my family. We only see each other once a year so we try to make that time productive. But sometimes we try to fit in a little too much activity in a single day. It is good to be able to sit back, take it easy, and smell the flowers. The chickens helped us do that. Just watching them was almost therapeutic. They reminded Dad of his past and they make me think of where I want to be in the future...maybe on a small farm where Norma and I could have our own little piece of heaven.